“God, why him… he was such a great dad!” I uttered these words when Uncle Jeff died. He was a great father of 2, talented photographer, and good friend.

Today, Natasha Richardson dies after head injury from ski accident. I have seen my share of deaths. High school classmate committed suicide + Uncle Jeff.

So what does this mean for you?

Perhaps, in the bigger picture, getting dumped by a girl/boy was not so bad after all.
Perhaps, getting mad at your parents for something silly can be resolved.

Even divorce, past regrets, all seem to vaporize.

Things I learned from her death. Start living your life, not someone else’s. Start smiling, there are people much worst.

Stop complaining, your co-workers pretend to care, your friends probably hate it.
Stop feeling like a victim (layoffs, dumped by gf/bf) instead, consider it a retreat for your soul.

Tomorrow is a new day.

“Past is full of regrets, future full of anxieties, focus on the PRESENT.”-Rayfil Wong